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UNconditional Love - Abraham Maslow broke it down for us in simple terms. He told us that in any given moment you have two
options: you can step forward into growth or you can step back into safety. Pretty simple, really.
Become aware of your behavior. Become aware of the decisions you are making every moment of your life, the decision to
speak authentically (step forward into growth) or to say what you think you should say (back into safety). Pay attention to
your decision to either Be an UNconditional Lover or to make up an excuse as to why you just can't do it today.
Become AWARE. Become Conscious of who you are, the decisions you're making, how you're expressing yourSelf and what you're
actually doing.
Your destiny is shaped by your moment to moment Decisions. Choose Wisely. Step Forward.
Unconditional Love is a concept that means showing Love towards someone regardless of his or her actions or Beliefs. It
is a concept comparable to True Love, a term which is more frequently used to describe Love between Lovers, But True Love
between lovers should Be UNconditional Love. By contrast, UNconditional Love is frequently used to describe Love between family
members, comrades in arms and between others in Highly Committed Relationships. It has also been used in a "religious"
context to describe God's Love for humankind.
Some secular authors make a distinction between UNconditional Love and conditional Love. In conditional Love (neediness):
Love is 'earned' on the basis of conscious or unconscious needs being met by the Lover, whereas in UNconditional Love, Love
is 'given freely' to the Loved One 'no matter what'. Conditional Love requires some kind of finite exchange whereas UNconditional
Love is seen as Infinite and Measureless. UNconditional Love should not be mistaken with unconditional dedication: unconditional
dedication refers to an act of the will irrespective of feelings (e.g a person may consider they have a duty to stay with
a person); UNconditional Love is an act of the feelings irrespective of will.
UNconditional Love is "an unlimited way of Being." The Greatest Power known to man is that of UNconditional
Love. Through the ages, mystics, sages, singers and poets all expressed the ballad and call to Love. As humans, we searched
endlessly for the experience of Love through the outer senses. Great civilizations have come and gone under the guise of Love
for their people. Religions have flourished and perished while claiming the True path to Love. We, the people of this planet,
may have missed the Simplicity of UNconditional Love. Simply stated, UNconditional Love is an UNlimited way of Being. We
are without any limit to our thoughts and feelings in life and can Create any reality we Choose to focus our attention upon.
The qualities of Love are endless and the expressions are Infinite. The power of UNconditional Love is Within each of us.
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